Idan Ba ​​ku Tambaya ba, Amsar A Koyaushe A'a ce

Shekaru da yawa da suka gabata, jim kaɗan bayan na ƙaura zuwa Los Angeles, ina magana da maƙwabta game da yin soyayya, da samari da nake so, kuma ko yakamata in/iya yin ƙaura ta farko, sai ta ce, "Idan ba ku tambaya ba, amsar a koyaushe ba ce. "

Ba zan iya zama mafi gigice ba. Ya zama kamar ta ba ni cikakken kek ɗin mousse na cakulan, ko aiki a cikin ɗakunan studio, ko zobe na alexandrite na da.

Kamar sauran mutane da yawa a Hollywood, (kodayake ba wanda na sani,) ta kasance Masanin Kimiyya. Ba su da mummunan rap ɗin da suke da shi a yanzu, kodayake har yanzu ana ɗaukar shi a matsayin abin ƙyama. Kuma tun daga wannan tattaunawar koyaushe ina tunanin -wannan shine addini wanda yake da wani abu mai ban sha'awa a bayan sa.

Ba na tuna idan na tambayi saurayin cewa ina haskakawa-a cikin gogewa na, galibi bala'i ne na ɗan gajeren lokaci-amma wannan sanarwa ta kasance meme tun daga lokacin. Kamar sauran mutane da yawa, yana da wahala a gare ni in nemi abubuwa, amma na sami ƙwarewa sosai wajen yin hakan. Akalla, abubuwan da ba na ƙauna ba.

Zan iya yin tambayoyi na kusan kowa da kowa, kuma in kira Shugaba na kowane kamfani, kuma ni mai koka ne mai kyau akan Twitter. A zahiri, ni mai bautar Lucy ne a cikin wasan kwaikwayo na Charlie Brown.

Amma kwanan nan, Google a hankali ya gaya mani cewa na yi kuskure, kuma wannan yanki na shawara mai ban mamaki ba daga Scientology bane kwata -kwata. Ya fito ne daga shahararriyar marubuciyar soyayya, Nora Roberts. Duk sashin yana karanta:

"Idan ba ku bi abin da kuke so ba, ba za ku taɓa samun sa ba. Idan ba ku tambaya ba, amsar koyaushe ba ce. Idan ba ku ci gaba ba, koyaushe kuna wuri ɗaya. ”

Ban taba gama romance novel ba. Shin za su iya samun tarin gaskiya, kamar yadda na yi tunanin Scientology ya yi? Na ga cewa Roberts ya rubuta littattafai sama da 200. Yanzu, wannan abin ƙarfafawa ne!

Don haka fara tambaya. Whitbourne ya rubuta kyakkyawan matsayi, wanda ake kira Hanyoyi 9 don Neman don Samun abin da kuke so. Amma idan ba ku neman abubuwa ba, amma fatan fatan jin kalmar "eh," na nemo muku post ɗin, a cikin Copyblogger.

Marubucin ya ba da wasu ƙa'idodin tunani, da yadda ake amfani da su don lallashewa, ba don yaudarar wani ba. Bayan haka, idan kun ba wani abu abin da suke so a asirce, amma ba su san suna buƙata ba, wannan nasara ce, dama?

Ragewa - Akwai babban buri na biyan basussuka, don yin wani abu yayin da aka yi mana wani abu. Wannan yunƙurin mai zurfi yana da ƙarfi sosai, masanin burbushin halittu Richard Leaky ya ce shi ne ainihin abin da ake nufi da zama ɗan adam.

Don haka ku baiwa mutane wani abu kyauta.

Kuma ina son wannan sharhin:

Kasancewa cikin neman aikin soja, mun koyi cewa kowace tambaya ta 8 da kuka yiwa wani zata haifar da amsar eh.

Hakan na iya zama haɗari. Ko da yawan jin daɗi.