Mazan Mazan Iyaye Masu Nasiha - Biyu Whammy

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• Ƙarin Albarkatun Maidowa:

Ko da yake na rubuta a ciki Ta Yaya Zan Kasance Mai Kyau? Warkar da 'Ya'yan Uwa Masu Nishaɗi, yana da alaƙa da bincike kan mata, Na karɓi imel da yawa daga maza suna tambaya game da tasirin maza da iyayen mahaifa suka taso. Abokan ciniki na maza suna karanta littafi na na yanzu, amma kuma suna neman ƙarin bayani. A halin yanzu ina yin bincike a wannan yanki kuma zaku iya taimakawa. Yi rajista don yin hira da sirri a ƙarƙashin "Maza kawai" akan gidan yanar gizon littafina a www.nevergoodenough.com.

A kan Good Enough Rocks Radio, shirinmu na rediyo na musamman ga manyan yara na iyayen da ba su da son zuciya, na yi hira da likitan dangi Terry Real a ranar 13 ga Nuwamba, 2010. Shi ne marubucin Ba na son Magana Game da Shi: Cin Nasara Asirin Gadon Namiji . Terry ya tattauna ɓacin rai a ɓoye a cikin maza da yadda yake hana su ma'amala da yadda suke ji. Hakanan mawuyacin hali yana aiki don nisantar da maza daga raunin ƙuruciyarsu ko wasu mahimman zurfin ji. A lokacin hirar, ba zan iya yin tunani ba sai don yadda ga yayan iyayen da ke da banbanci, yana da ninki biyu. Na farko, sakon ... "Kada ku yi magana game da yadda kuke ji" ya fito ne daga yadda muke sada zumunta da maza a cikin wannan al'ada. Sannan na biyun shine saƙo mai ma'ana amma mafi ɓarna daga dangin narcissistic wanda ke ƙarfafa maza su ƙaryata ainihin su. Duk da yake mu a matsayin mata, budurwa, 'yan'uwa mata, da' ya'ya mata muna son mazajen mu su kasance masu hankali da yin magana game da duniyar su ta ciki, an yi bayanin wahalar wannan a cikin tambayoyin Terry Real ta wata hanya mai zurfi. Terry ya dace sosai, "Maza ba sa son kwallaye na mahaifinsu, suna son zukatan mahaifinsu." Kuma yana magana game da mahimmancin tarbiyyar maza masu ƙarfi da manyan zuciya.

Har ila yau, Real ta tattauna muhawararsa mai ban sha'awa tare da tatsuniyar da aka yi imani da ita cewa yara maza su rabu da iyayensu masu renon su a farkon rayuwa don kada su zama 'yan uwan ​​juna. Wannan zai zama jigo mai kyau ga Masu Tatsuniya! Haƙiƙa yana ɓarna wannan tatsuniya kuma yana kuma bayyana imaninsa cewa saƙon yana rashin mutunci ga mata. Kamar yadda muka sani, mata da yawa marasa aure da 'yan madigo suna kiwon' ya'ya maza a kwanakin nan kuma suna yin aiki mai kyau. Terry Real kuma yana tunatar da mu cewa lokacin da ƙungiyoyin mata suka fara, akwai damuwa a lokacin cewa idan an ƙarfafa 'yan matanmu su kasance masu wayo da ƙwarewa gami da sexy da kulawa, muna cikin haɗarin mayar da mata maza. Tabbas, mun san yadda abin ya kasance abin ba'a. Ina damuwa cewa tatsuniyar raba yara samari da uwayensu masu renon yara tun suna ƙarami, yana kafa maza marasa ƙarfi don yin watsi da tunanin farko. Terry Real, da sauran masu ilimin halin ƙwaƙwalwa, suna magana akan gaskiyar cewa babu wani bincike da ya goyi bayan tatsuniya cewa yara maza suna zama sissies idan suna kusa da uwayensu.

Bayan shekaru talatin na aikin asibiti a fagen lafiyar hankali, abu ɗaya da na sani tabbas shine cewa kowa yana buƙatar ƙauna, kulawa, goyan baya, tausayi, da haɗin kai. Ta yaya yaro zai sami isasshen soyayya da gaske? Dukanmu muna neman a ƙaunace mu kuma a ƙaunace mu. Ba a ma maganar idan za mu koyi yadda ake soyayya, dole ne a ƙaunace mu ... da yawa.

Abubuwan da ke haifar da ɓacin rai na maza wanda ya haɗa da yawan kashe kansa, batutuwan gudanar da fushi, tashin hankalin gida, shaye -shaye da matsalolin alaƙa, suna neman ƙarin ilimi kan wannan batun. Ina gayyatar ku don sauraron tarihin Good Enough Rocks Radio a www.nevergoodenough.com don jin muhimman ra'ayoyin da likitan ilimin dangi Terry Real ya gabatar.

Lokacin da muke nema, muna samu. Lokacin da muka kai, muna samun tallafi. Lokacin da muke kulawa, muna yin bambanci.

Ƙarin Albarkatun Maidowa:

Yanar Gizo: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com

Littafin: Ta Yaya Zan Kasance Mai Kyau? Warkar da 'Ya'yan Uwa Masu Nishaɗi http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/the-book-2/buy-the-book

Littafin Sauti: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/the-book-2/buy-the-book

Bita: Warkar da ofa ofan ca Naran ca Naran can Uwa Masu Nishaɗi. Mayar da aiki a cikin sirrin gidanka, cikakke tare da gabatarwar bidiyo da ayyukan gida: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/workshop-overview-healing-the-daughters-of-narcissistic-mothers

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"Wannan ita ce Maman ku?" Yi binciken: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/narcissistic-mother