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Ranar Halitta: 7 Fabrairu 2021
Sabuntawa: 18 Yiwu 2024
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His attitude towards you. Thoughts and feelings
Video: His attitude towards you. Thoughts and feelings

Farkon sabuwar shekara wata ma'ana ce ta lokaci don tantance inda kake a rayuwa da saita wasu maƙasudai. Idan aka yi la’akari da shaƙatawar rayuwa, ci gaba da ayyukan aiki, da kuma jigon duniyar da muke rayuwa a ciki, bege fasaha ce mai mahimmanci don haɓakawa.

Duk da yake mutane da yawa suna tunanin bege azaman motsin rai, masu bincike sun bayyana shi azaman ka'idar fahimi wanda ke da alaƙa da kafa manufa. Mai binciken bege, Dr. CR Snyder, galibi yana bayyana bege tare da wannan jumlar: "Kuna iya zuwa can daga nan." Ya yi imanin cewa rayuwa ta ƙunshi dubunnan lokuta inda kuke tunani kuma kuna tunanin yadda zaku samu daga Point A zuwa Point B.

Mutane masu bege suna raba imani guda huɗu:

  1. Nan gaba zai fi na yanzu;
  2. Kuna da ra'ayin yadda rayuwar ku ke gudana;
  3. Akwai hanyoyi da yawa don cimma burin mutum da na ƙwararru; kuma
  4. Za a sami cikas.

An danganta manyan matakan bege da ƙarancin rashin halarta, ƙarin samarwa, da ƙarin lafiya da farin ciki. Wannan shine taƙaitaccen bayanin wasu daga cikin binciken bege:


Fata da Shugabanci

Shugabanni suna buƙatar ƙwarewa wajen gina bege a cikin mabiyan su. Kungiyar bincike ta kungiyar Gallup ta yi hira da samfurin sama da mutane 10,000 kuma ta nemi bayyana kwatankwacin jagora wanda ke da tasiri mai kyau a rayuwar su ta yau da kullun. An nemi wadannan mabiya su bayyana wannan jagora mai tasiri cikin kalmomi uku. Binciken ya nuna cewa mabiya suna son shugabannin su sadu da buƙatun tunani guda huɗu: kwanciyar hankali, amincewa, tausayi da bege.

Fata da Yawan aiki

An haɗa bege da yawan aiki. Ina zargin cewa a ranakun da kuka sami mafi yawan abin da kuke yi kuna da ƙima mai ƙarfi game da abin da burin ku ke haɗe da kuzari don cimma abin da kuke so. Ƙara matakan haɓaka yana fassara zuwa sakamakon kasuwanci. Masu fataucin fata suna isa adadinsu sau da yawa, masu fatan dillalan jinginar gida suna aiwatarwa da rufe ƙarin lamuni, kuma masu fatan gudanar da zartarwa suna cika burin su na kwata -kwata.

Fata, Damuwa & Tawakkali


Lokacin da kuka fuskanci damuwa, yaya kuke amsawa? Mutanen da ke da babban bege galibi suna haifar da ƙarin dabaru don dacewa da yadda ake haifar da tashin hankali kuma suna bayyana yiwuwar yin amfani da ɗayan dabarun da aka samar. Mutane masu matuƙar bege suna da sassauƙa, ingantattu kuma masu zurfin tunani; wato suna da sassaucin fahimta don nemo madadin mafita lokacin da aka katse hanya.

Fata da Haɗin Jama'a

Mutanen da ke da babban bege galibi suna da alaƙa ta kusa da wasu mutane saboda suna sha'awar burin wasu mutane da rayuwarsu. Bincike ya kuma nuna cewa mutane masu bege suna da ingantaccen ikon ɗaukar yanayin wasu kuma suna jin daɗin yin mu'amala da sauran mutane. Manyan matakan bege kuma suna da alaƙa da ƙarin fahimtar zamantakewa, ƙarin ƙwarewar zamantakewa da ƙarancin kaɗaici (wani muhimmin bincike tunda bincike ya nuna cewa ƙwararru da yawa suna kokawa da kadaici).

Fata tsari ne wanda ya ƙunshi sassa uku:


  1. Manufofi: Fata ya samo asali ne daga maƙasudan da suka fi mahimmanci a gare mu yayin da muke tsara inda muke son tafiya a rayuwa da aiki.
  2. Agency: Wannan shine ikon mu na jin kamar zamu iya samar da sakamako a rayuwar mu kuma sanya abubuwa su faru.
  3. Hanyoyi: Sau da yawa za a sami hanyoyi da yawa da za ku iya bi don cimma burin ku. Samun damar gano waɗannan hanyoyi daban -daban, tare da matsalolin da za su iya tasowa, yana da mahimmanci don kasancewa da bege.

Tun da sanya bege muhimmin bangare ne na jagoranci mai kyau, ga hanyoyi uku da shugabanni za su iya motsa mabiyansu:

  • Ƙirƙiri da riƙe farin ciki game da nan gaba. Akwai babban aikin a sararin sama? Menene hangen nesan da kuke zanawa mabiya a wurin aiki?
  • Taimaka wa mabiyan ku su rushe abubuwan da ke kawo cikas ga buri, kuma kada ku sanya sababbi. Yi amfani da damar don tattauna takamaiman matsalolin da membobin ƙungiyar ku ke fuskanta, sannan ku zama masu haɓaka don taimaka musu samun sabbin hanyoyin kusa da shinge.
  • Sake kafa maƙasudai-ko sake maƙasudin-lokacin da yanayi ya buƙaci hakan. Wani lokaci hangen nesa na asali baya aiki, kuma shugabanni nagari sun san lokacin da zasu canza zuwa Shirin B.

Fata yana da ban sha'awa. Mai ba ni shawara Dr. Shane Lopez ya ce ya fi kyau: "Mabiya suna neman shugabanni don cin moriyar ruhi da ra'ayoyin lokutan, yin mafarkin babba, da motsa su zuwa makoma mai ma'ana." Muna matukar bukatar wannan ƙarfin a cikin aikin mu da kuma cikin duniyar mu.

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Paula Davis-Laack tana aiki tare da ƙungiyoyi don taimaka musu haɓaka ƙwararrun jagorori, ƙungiyoyi, da al'adu.

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