Shin Kuna Yin Isasshen Jima'i?

Wadatacce

• Muhimmancin Karatun Jima'i
• Nadamar Jima'i baya Canza Halayyar Jima'i ta gaba

Jima'i wani abu ne da duk muke yi. Duk da yake akwai dalilai da yawa don yin jima'i (duba dalilai 7), wasu daga cikin mu, saboda kowane dalili, suna yin hakan sau da yawa fiye da sauran.

Tare da karuwar shahara ta batsa, mutane suna, ba shakka, sun fi sanin jima'i fiye da kowane lokaci. Koyaya, har yanzu akwai LOT na bayanan da ba su dace ba suna yawo.

Sau nawa muke yin 'jima'i'?

Akwai banbanci mai ban mamaki na canji a cikin abin da mutane ke la'akari da "yin jima'i" (alal misali, kusan kashi 45% na mutane suna ɗaukar motsawar hannu-al'aura don zama "jima'i", kuma 71% suna ɗaukar yin jima'i ta baki shine "jima'i"). Nazarin da aka gudanar a Cibiyar Kinsey ya kammala da cewa matsakaicin mita wanda wani ke yin jima'i ya bambanta a matsayin aikin shekarun su:

• Yara masu shekaru 18-29; 2.15 sau a mako
• Yara masu shekaru 30-39; 1.65 sau a mako
• 'Yan shekaru 40-49; 1.33 sau a mako

Lallai jima'i shine ɗayan manyan abubuwan da ake tsara aure (da kusan duk wata alaƙar alaƙa). Ofaya daga cikin abubuwan da ke ƙayyade yawan jima'i da kuke yi shine ko kun yi aure ko a'a, kuma idan haka ne, yaushe kuka yi aure. Yawan jima'i a cikin aure yana da alaƙa mai kyau tare da gamsuwa da jin daɗin aure (ga maza da mata), kuma yana da alaƙa da haɗarin saki.

Wani babban binciken Amurka ya gano cewa matsakaicin yawan jima'i na ma'aurata shine, jira shi, sau 1.25/mako-har ma da ƙasa da mutane a cikin sashi na shekaru 40-49! Wani abin mamakin binciken shine cewa yawan jima'i a cikin dangantakar ya karu lokacin da abokin aikin namiji yayi ƙasa da gidan. Musamman musamman, an yi wa maza 'azabtarwa' don ƙoƙarin ayyukan gida waɗanda aka haɗa da mata ... (?)

Nazarin 2016 da aka buga a cikin Taskar Labarin Jima'i ya gano cewa tsakanin ma'auratan da ke zaune a Amurka, yawan jima'i, gamsuwa ta jima'i, da gamsuwa na aure duk sun ragu akan lokaci. A kowane hali zubar da jini ya kasance mai ban mamaki a cikin 'yan shekarun farko bayan aure sannan sannu a hankali.

Hanya don kula da sha'awar na iya kasancewa a haɗa shi a cikin ɗakin kwana, kuma a sami yawan inzali. Yayin da wasu ƙididdiga ke ba da shawarar cewa maza sun ninka sau uku fiye da na mata don samun inzali yayin jima'i fiye da mata, labari mai daɗi shine cewa mata sun fi samun damar yin inzali yayin da suka tsufa (maza ba su da ƙima).

Babban binciken da NBC News ke tallafawa ya gano cewa yawaitawa da bambancin jinsi na daga cikin mafi kyawun hasashen gamsuwa da sha’awar jima'i ga maza da mata.

Sau nawa mutane ke yin jima'i ta dubura?

Idan kun taɓa ciyar da kowane lokaci akan layi tabbas kun ga aƙalla tallan talla guda ɗaya game da batsa. Waɗannan tallace -tallace suna yin kyakkyawan aiki na ba ku ra'ayi cewa kusan kowa yana yawan yin lalata da dubura. Wannan tabbas ba haka bane, amma ƙididdigar na iya ba ku mamaki.

Ba abin mamaki bane cewa galibin (amma ba duka ba) maza masu luwadi sun tsunduma cikin dubura a wani lokaci. Rahoton mafi rinjaye bayan ya shiga cikin ma'amala mai shiga da karɓa. Abin da zai ba wasu mutane mamaki shine karuwar adadin maza da mata da ke yin jima'i ta dubura.

Comprehensiveaya daga cikin cikakken bita ya ba da shawarar cewa ƙima mai ƙima mai ƙarancin ra'ayin mazan jiya ga yawan matan Amurkawa da ke yin jima'i ta dubura kusan zai kai kashi 10%. Cikakken adadin mutanen da ke yin jima'i na dubura mai yiwuwa yana kusa da 4-7x sama da adadin mazan da ke yin jima'i ta dubura.

Muhimmancin Karatun Jima'i

Nadamar Jima'i baya Canza Halayyar Jima'i ta gaba